What are the most romantic things to do in NYC?
The answer to this depends on you and your loved one and what activities you both consider romantic. Do you dream of gazing into each others eyes over a candlelit dinner and a glass of fine wine? Or would you rather take a cooking class and learn how to make a dish you can enjoy together?
Lots of couples visit the city’s observation decks to peer out over the dreamy Manhattan skyline from dizzying heights, while others prefer to bond through adventure by taking part in something like City Climb, where you can harness up and scale the outside of a 1,200-foot skyscraper. Everyone’s sense of romance is different.
Matt and I met while we were teaching English in Japan. We planned lessons together and flirted a lot and, since we were neighbors and co-workers, generally spent a lot of time with each other. But we never dated or had any encounters during those first giddy months that would be considered traditionally “romantic.”
After Japan, we decided we wanted to be a couple at the same time we decided we wanted to keep traveling. So we got to know each other during a month traveling through Laos. We then spent another few months in Vietnam, and we’ve been together ever since.
Maybe because of the non-traditional way we came together, we didn’t deliberately plan for romance in the early days of our relationship. He didn’t send me a dozen red roses and I didn’t make him mix-tapes filled with ballads that hinted at my true feelings.
However, looking back, I can pinpoint lots of things in our past experiences that now strike me as incredibly romantic: in Myanmar, riding bicycles side by side down dusty roads in Bagan, searching for impossibly ancient temples. In Jordan, laughing as we slathered ourselves in sea mud and then floated magically, nearly suspended on top of the Dead Sea.
Even in Eastern Turkey, when we ate a meat-heavy dinner in a dimly lit converted mosque and ended up with food poisoning the next day. We could barely lift our heads off our pillows but Matt forced himself to go out for simits, a bagel-like Turkish bread that was the only thing I could imagine keeping down.
Where’s the romance in food poisoning, you might ask? When someone is willing to bypass their own discomfort and weakly but bravely set out in search of the one and only thing you are able to eat, in a foreign country, no less–that’s my idea of romantic!
Since the days when we traveled frequently, my ideas on romance have expanded. I still love finding adventures together, which always lead to the best memories. I also like more traditional couple activities, like dining at a favorite restaurant or taking a walk at sunset.
And while the world is full of romantic cities (looking at you Istanbul and Paris), New York is the one we know and love the best. Matt and I recently celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary and in honor of that, we’ve put together 20 ideas for romantic things to do in NYC.
1. Stay at a Posh Hotel
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Whether you’re on your honeymoon, celebrating a special anniversary, or just want some alone time together, pampering yourselves at a romantic New York City hotel is a special treat.
If money is no object, why not book The Plaza? Their romance package includes a welcome bottle of fine champagne, gourmet chocolates, and in-room afternoon tea. For a less expensive but still sumptuous experience, check out The Beekman in Lower Manhattan, located inside a 19th century building that’s centered around a luxurious nine-story atrium.
Dream Downtown is a sleek, stylish hotel in Chelsea with porthole windows in guest rooms and a sand beach with a 50-foot glass-bottom pool (open seasonally) on the roof.
Staying at Arlo SoHo assures you’ll be in one of New York’s most romantic neighborhoods, but there’s an in-house restaurant and rooftop bar in case you don’t want to leave the premises!
In Brooklyn, The William Vale offers unbeatable skyline views, guest rooms decorated by local artists, and a rooftop bar. In the winter, ice skate on the rooftop Vale Rink or book a session at the Winter Spa, where you can soak in a red cedar hot tub or enjoy the panoramic view from the barrel sauna dome windows.
The TWA Hotel at JFK airport is a great option for couples who are into all things retro. Book a runway room and watch planes land and take off while lounging in bed, or choose a room that looks out over the groovy sixties-era main terminal. Be sure to book a swimming session at the year-round heated rooftop pool. Read more about our experience at the TWA Hotel.
2. Dine at a Romantic Restaurant
When it comes to things to do in NYC for couples, food is inevitably involved. After all, nothing is more romantic than sharing an exquisitely delicious meal at an intimate New York City restaurant!
Here are a few places that, over the years we’ve lived in NYC, have become our go-to spots for special occasion dinners. Be sure to check ahead to see if reservations are required.
- Palma-Italian restaurant that serves fresh pasta made on the premises. If possible, dine in the charming courtyard garden. If that’s not available, the dining room is cozy, too. 28 Cornelia St., New York, NY
- L’Artusi-Fabulous and fresh Italian-inspired cuisine with an extensive Italian wine list and two floors of seating that accommodate up to 110 diners. 228 W. 10th St., New York, NY
- Mary’s Fish Camp-A casual, fun seafood restaurant where, depending on the catch of the day, you might indulge in a fried oyster PoBoy, lobster knuckles, or fried anchovies. 64 Charles St., New York, NY
NOTE: Mary’s Fish Camp isn’t a traditionally romantic venue. It’s fast-paced and fun but we’ve always loved eating in restaurants that appear chaotic on the outside but in reality, run like a well-oiled machine. Our wedding anniversary is dead in the middle of summer, so if we’re not at the beach, we love celebrating at Mary’s Fish Camp!
- Amelie Wine Bar-A French menu and extensive list of delicious wines are on offer at two NYC locations. For a romantic dinner, I love their West Village spot but both that and the Upper West Side location have a nice ambiance. Order a wine flight each to fully experience their selection of French vino. Greenwich Village: 22 W. 8th St., New York, NY. Upper West Side: 566 Amsterdam Ave., New York NY.
You’ll notice above that I have an affinity for Greenwich Village when it comes to dining out. It’s at the top of my list of NYC romantic places and I love it for special occasions. However, we like restaurants in other neighborhoods, too!
- queensyard-American cuisine prepared with a London flair is served in a plush dining room with windows facing directly out onto the Vessel at Hudson Yards. Especially nice for special occasion dates. 20 Hudson Yards, New York, NY
- FiTo-If you’re in our uptown neighborhood, be sure to dine at FiTo, a very small, very local restaurant that serves outstanding tapas and lots of unique wines. With an intimate dining space that’s romantic and lively at the same time, this place was made for couples! If it’s summer, stop by The Hudson before dinner for a waterfront cocktail. 4736 Broadway, New York, NY
- Arthur Avenue Restaurants-Italian restaurants have always held an air of romance for me and some of the best are on Arthur Avenue, known as The Bronx’s Little Italy.
We’ve dined at many restaurants near Arthur Ave. over the years and especially love Roberto’s and Dominick’s. Be aware that dining at Dominick’s is a unique experience. Customers are seated at long group tables and payment is by cash only. Rather than hand you a menu, waiters will tell you what’s good in the kitchen today or ask you what you’re in the mood to eat.
In our experience, their recommendations never lead us astray! Roberto’s: 603 Crescent Ave., The Bronx, NY. Dominick’s: 2335 Arthur Ave., The Bronx, NY.
3. Get Cozy at a Speakeasy
From 1920 to 1933, the production, sale, and consumption of alcoholic beverages was prohibited by U.S. federal law. During this era of Prohibition, illegal bars called speakeasies popped up, discreetly selling the illegal substance to its customers.
As you might imagine, speakeasies thrived. Many were run by organized crime families who made sure the booze was always flowing. And owners vied for customers by putting musicians, usually local jazz bands, on stage. The live music and cocktails, combined with the hush-hush nature of these “gin joints” enticed patrons night after night.
And while Prohibition is long over, bars that replicate them remain. Many speakeasies in New York evoke the era of Prohibition, whether through the flapper-era décor, the private corner tables, or the ritual of requiring a password before being admitted. These throwback quirks make for a fun, romantic evening out in NYC.
We especially love Raines Law Room (the Chelsea location) for its plush furniture, dim lighting, and long list of cocktails to choose from. The speakeasy name comes from Raines law, an 1896 legislation that mostly outlawed the sale of liquor on Sundays, which was the only day of the week that men likely had time off from work and could go to their local tavern and indulge in a drink or two.
Other popular speakeasies scattered around Manhattan include Employee’s Only in the West Village, Attaboy, The Back Room, and Please Don’t Tell on the Lower East Side, Basement and Apotheke in Chinatown, and Bathtub Gin in Chelsea.
TIP: If you’re really into the history of speakeasies in NYC, consider booking a Speakeasy Walking Tour or Prohibition History & Drinking Tour.
4. Learn Something New in a Couples Class
True love means growing together and a fun way to achieve that growth is by taking one of the many couples classes offered around the city. Read on for a few suggestions.
- Couples Night Pottery-We all know from the 1990 cultural phenomenon that was Ghost that doing pottery together can be super sexy! All kidding aside, though, being creative together is a wonderful way to bond and with pottery, you’ll end up with a piece or two you can take home.
Sign up for Couples Night at Mugi Studio on the Upper West Side and you’ll learn how to make simple cups, vases, and more. No experience is required and whatever you create will be ready to pick up three weeks later.
- Ballroom Dancing-Learn some new moves and have a ton of fun while doing it at Fred Astaire Dance Studios, where ballroom dance lessons are available for both singles and couples. And if your relationship escalates to a certain point, you can take dance lessons for your wedding at the same place!
- Couples Cooking-Take a variety of cooking classes designed for couples at Coursehorse.com, a company that helps you find and enroll in classes of all types. Upcoming couples cooking classes in NYC will teach you and your sweetheart how to make pasta, pizza, Thai food, tapas, and so much more!
- Still searching for the right class to take with your love? Check out Couples Classes NYC for more ideas!
5. Swap Stories in a Storytelling Class
Not long ago, live storytelling performances were all the rage in New York City. Actors, comedians, and anyone else with a story to tell took to the stage to spill personal, sometimes shocking, but always true stories.
The Moth, a nonprofit organization that hosts StorySLAMS, was largely responsible for this trend. Prior to the pandemic, tickets for StorySLAMS at places like Housing Works Bookstore in SoHo and The Bell House in Brooklyn sold out quickly and people lined up early to get good seats.
If you’re not familiar, here’s how a StorySLAM works: when you arrive at the StorySLAM venue, you can drop your name in a hat for the chance to tell your story on stage. Ten people are selected and stories must be true, told without notes, and on the theme of that evening’s event. Before the storytelling begins, judges are selected from the audience, and a winner is declared at the end of the evening.
Themes are available online ahead of time and every year, there’s a special Valentine’s Day StorySLAM on the theme, Love Hurts. Just as it sounds, storytellers bare their souls about the times in their lives they had their hearts broken.
And while attending a live storytelling event is a fun thing to do as a couple, why not take things a step further and enroll in a storytelling class together? Like any live performance, storytelling is a craft, and classes are available to help you develop that craft.
A few years ago, Matt and I took storytelling classes together and they turned out to be one of my top favorite couple things to do in NYC. And though the availability of these classes has dwindled because of the pandemic, the two places we took classes have fortunately survived.
- Magnet Theater-Taught by 20-time StorySLAM champion Adam Wade, and Robert Weinstein, host of The Moth Podcast/Radio Hour.
- The Story Studio-Founded by actor Kevin Allison, who has credits that include The State, Reno 911!, Flight of the Conchords, and more. Classes are taught by either Allison or another talented instructor.
We took classes with both Adam Wade and Kevin Allison and can confirm they are both all-star storytellers and skilled at teaching others how to become one, too.
In a storytelling class, you’ll develop true, personal stories with the help of your teacher and classmates, who will provide feedback and suggestions for improvement. And classes, which typically meet once a week for several weeks, usually culminate in a live performance in front of an audience consisting of you, your classmates and teacher, and whatever friends and family you can convince to attend.
For me, the pleasant surprise in taking the class as a couple was hearing new stories from each other. After many years of marriage, it might be obvious to assume a couple has run out of tales to tell. You’ve probably heard ad nauseam about his epic world trip, her disastrous first job, the time one of you almost died, etc. But a storytelling class has a way of drawing out new, more vivid details of a story, or new stories altogether.
And if you’re a newish couple? Baring your soul to each other and an audience seems like the best way to fast-track a relationship!
And who knows? If you love it, you might both throw your name into the hat at the next Moth StorySLAM event. This is, in my opinion, a perfect date for couples who have a flair for the dramatic.
6. Attend a Book or Poetry Reading
Are you and your mate lovers of literature?
If so, there’s no end of fun and inspiring local author events you might attend. New York City is a magnet for literary talent from around the world and lucky us–we get to reap the benefits at venues all over the city.
I love the Franklin Park Reading Series, where talented new and established authors read their latest works of fiction, memoir, essay, or poetry. Or head to Pete’s Candy Store, a Brooklyn bar that brings writers to the stage in their ongoing event, Pete’s Reading Series.
Bowery Poetry Club is another standout venue that hosts open mic nights and reading series that highlight New York’s incredible diversity. Attend an ASL (American Sign Language) Slam, a poetry series focusing on endangered languages, a reading series featuring queer people of color, and much more.
Finally, be sure to check the schedule of events at The Strand, a bookstore that hosts a regular schedule of in-person author events, and Union Square Barnes & Noble, which often hosts celebrity authors. After a reading, you can usually get your book signed by the author.
Over the years, Matt and I have met David Sedaris, Ozzie Osbourne, and Salman Rushdie at events like this, creating memories we’ll never forget. If you’re bookworms, this is among my top suggestions for best date ideas in NYC.
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7. Spend Some Time Apart
Hear me out on this one!
Yes, despite the fact that this article is meant to guide you toward spending quality time together, I am suggesting that you spend a few hours apart.
Absence, as they say, makes the heart grow fonder.
Seriously though, Matt and I have traveled together a lot, often for long periods of time. What we realized along the way is that we don’t always have to be attached at the hip. We do have our own interests, after all, and some couples may want a few hours of independence when they travel.
The big payoff is that you can come together afterwards to share the adventures you had in each other’s absence.
We did this a few years ago on a trip to Bruges, Belgium. There was a running tour I was dying to do, and Matt found a walking photography tour that took place at the same time.
On my excursion, I went for a two-mile jog with a tour guide, stopping at major landmarks along the way. (I recommend this for runners–you can do a New York running tour, too!). Matt’s tour guide took him around to the most photogenic spots in the city, many of which we wouldn’t have known about if not for the tour.
Our Bruges trip took place in early January–very much the off-season there, so each of us were the lone participants of our tours, making them even more memorable.
Even though we were only apart for a few hours, it felt like longer and we were both excited to talk about our exploits when we met for lunch. We also took each other to a few the spots we’d learned about on our tours.
I do acknowledge that this option isn’t for everyone and that’s fine! But if it sounds like something that would be right for you, here are a few ideas:
- Like we did, take separate walking tours based on your individual areas of interest.
- Take a drop-in improv class at The Pit. You’ll definitely have a lot to report back later!
- See separate live performances. Maybe one of you loves the opera while the other absolutely must don a cape and see Harry Potter and the Cursed Child.
- Attend a free writing class in Bryant Park (summers only).
- Go for a solo run around the Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Reservoir in Central Park (along with hundreds of other New Yorkers!).
Be sure to plan where you’ll meet up afterwards, whether it’s for drinks, dinner, or a leisurely walk in the park.
8. Get Off the Beaten Tourist Trail
A sure-fire way to bond while traveling is to do things most tourists don’t do. When you follow the path less taken, you’re more likely to peel back the layers of New York City. Perhaps you’ll meet some colorful local residents or find a delicious-but-undiscovered-by-tourists restaurant.
In New York City, there are plenty of non-touristy escapades to be had, as long as you’re willing to spend a little extra time on the subway, stretch your comfort zones into the outer boroughs, and yes–maybe even get a little lost in a neighborhood less likely to see tourists.
Some of our favorite non-touristy attractions include the Conservatory Garden at the northern end of Central Park, the quirky City Reliquary in Brooklyn, the New York Chinese Scholar’s Garden in Staten Island, the Louis Armstrong House Museum in Queens, and Wave Hill in the Bronx.
Read about more off-the-beaten path attractions here.
9. Be Awestruck by Amazing Skyline Views
Are you even a couple if you haven’t declared your love for each other from the top of the Empire State Building?
Just kidding! That’s an old sentiment, back from the days when the choice of the city’s observation platforms was limited to the Empire State Building and the Top of the Rock. Seeing the city from up high is still among the most romantic things to do in NYC, but these days, there are so many options and each offers their own unique take on the skyline viewing experience.
As a longtime NYC icon, the Empire State Building remains a popular choice. There’s an outdoor viewing platform on the 86th floor and an indoor, floor-to-ceiling observatory on the 102nd floor. And while it’s hard to resist the lure of this iconic skyscraper, many people prefer the views from the Top of the Rock, where you can actually see the Empire State Building as part of the skyline.
In my opinion, views from both observation decks are incomparable, but I do prefer Top of the Rock for the skyline view, as well as for the birds-eye view of sprawling Central Park. However, if you absolutely must meet at the top of the Empire State Building to fulfill your romantic fantasy, you will not be disappointed by those views either!
Thrill-seeking couples should check out Edge. This observation deck is located at Hudson Yards and soars 100 feet above the New York City sidewalks. A section of the outdoor platform is clear glass and provides dizzying views straight down to the streets. For a real bonding experience, harness yourselves in and scale the outside of the building on a City Climb excursion at Edge.
For a romantic dinner with views, make a reservation at Peak, just one floor above Edge in the same skyscraper. Reservations at Peak come with complementary tickets to Edge.
All the way downtown in Lower Manhattan, One World Observatory features panoramic views from floors 100-102. You can also eat lunch or dinner on-site at ONE Dine.
Finally, SUMMIT One Vanderbilt is an observation deck that offers views from floors 91 through 93. Visitors to SUMMIT are be fully immersed in the experience by walking on mirrored floors, stepping into a skybox that sits 1,060 feet above the ground, and riding up the side of the skyscraper in an all-glass elevator.
If you’re looking for a lot of visual stimulation and absolutely killer couples photos, SUMMIT is the observation platform for you!
10. Take a Romantic Sunset Stroll
Taking a leisurely walk at sunset is a simple yet classically romantic activity, especially in New York City when the light of the magic hour hits just right and the city’s sparkling beauty unfolds in every direction. New York City offers endless destinations for a romantic sunset walk but here are a few of our favorites.
Brooklyn Bridge
The best views come from being on the bridge at sunset, although you’ll be far from alone and should expect a crowd to be there, too. You could also walk across the bridge, exit on the Brooklyn side, and watch the sun go down from Brooklyn Bridge Park or the Brooklyn Heights Promenade.
- TIP: Take this walk before a very romantic (and very expensive) dinner at The River Cafe in Brooklyn Bridge Park. The view from this Michelin-starred restaurant is spectacular. Note that there is a dress code and fixed price starts at $195 per person. For a more budget-minded meal, try the extraordinary pizza at Grimaldi’s, Juliana’s, or Ignazio’s, all located within a short walk of each other.
Little Island
This uniquely-designed city park hovers over the Hudson River and provides lots of different lookout points from which to view the sunset and snap unforgettable couples photos!
- TIP: For stunning sunset photos, walk a few steps north of Little Island to Pier 57 Rooftop Park. Once the sun goes down, have a glass of wine or dinner at City Winery, on the ground floor at Pier 57.
Fort Tryon Park
This is way up in Northern Manhattan, so I completely understand if you don’t want to travel this far just to catch the sunset! (Although you won’t be sorry you did!) Located on high ground in Upper Manhattan, Fort Tryon Park offers views down the Hudson River and beyond, and is especially scenic at sunset.
- TIP: If you’re visiting the MET Cloisters, which is located in Fort Tryon Park, time your visit so you leave as the sun is setting. After exiting the Cloisters, make your way west toward the Hudson River. You should be able to look south and see the George Washington Bridge. Afterwards, dine on South American style cuisine at FiTo or get a drink and a bite to eat at the lively North End Food Hall.
11. See Experimental Live Theater
If you and your other half love to belt out show tunes, then by all means, be sure to see a splashy Broadway hit. Hamilton is as good as everyone says, and Funny Girl is supposed to be phenomenal!
But don’t miss out on smaller theatrical productions either. These are often experimental and take place in theaters far from the crowded Theater District. Seeing a unique show like this together will likely give you an experience you’ll always remember. I highly recommend it if you’re theater fans and if you’re searching for fun things to do in NYC for couples.
In the first couple of years I lived in New York City, I wrote reviews for Off-Broadway and Off-Off Broadway plays and it was then that I realized how vast the NYC theater scene is, and how very far it goes beyond traditional Broadway plays.
You can find smaller theatrical productions in several different ways.
- Search the internet for current Off-Broadway and Off-Off-Broadway plays.
- For same-day tickets, visit the TKTS booth in Times Square or Lincoln Center. They’ll have a list of Off-Broadway shows available for that day.
- Get on the mailing list for local theater companies or follow them on social media. They’ll keep you updated on their current and upcoming projects. In my opinion, this is the best way to stay up to date on all the deliciously diverse performances that are available in New York!
Here are a few recommended theater companies to keep an eye on:
- Elevator Repair Service-Known for wildly experimental productions based on classic literature. The plays we’ve attended by this company are without doubt some of the most memorable ones I’ve ever seen, including Gatz, an eight-hour-long play during which The Great Gatsby is read from cover to cover. (As a side note, if you can find someone to watch a play with you that requires two intermissions and a dinner break, I think you’ve found your soulmate!)
- Classical Theatre of Harlem-See the classics along with revivals and brand new productions by a company devoted to bringing theater to diverse audiences in underserved communities such as Harlem.
- Ma-Yi Theater Company-Their focus on inventive plays from Asian American playwrights have earned this theater company several prestigious accolades including an Obie Award and a Lucille Lortel Award.
- Repertorio Espanol-Founded in 1968, this theater company has staged more than 250 original productions. They are dedicated to works created by Latino artists.
- National Queer Theater-Artistic excellence, social justice, and positive representation are the goals when productions created by LGBTQ artists are brought to the stage. Post-show discussions with the audience are a central part of their works.
12. Set Sail on a Scenic Cruise
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If you love the idea of a boarding a boat and taking a romantic sailing excursion, here are some highly recommended cruises that make amazing outings for two!
Sunset Schooner Cruise
Sail on the Hudson River aboard the Schooner Adirondack and watch the sun go down over the city’s most famous landmarks. One complimentary drink (champagne, wine, or beer) is included.
- Departs from 62 Chelsea Piers
- Cost: from $86
- Duration: 2 hours
Day Sail to Statue of Liberty
A daytime sail on the Hudson River aboard the Adirondack schooner takes passengers by the Financial District, Statue of Liberty, and other landmarks. One complimentary beverage is included.
- Departs from 62 Chelsea Piers
- Cost: from $68
- Duration: 2 hours
Sunset Sail
All aboard the Shearwater schooner for a New York Harbor sail. Get up close to famous landmarks as the sunset casts its magic. A cash bar is available.
- Departs from North Cove Marina at Brookfield Place
- Cost: from $98
- Duration: 2 hours
Tall Ship Sail Aboard Clipper City
A historic sailboat glides past One World Trade, Empire State Building, Brooklyn Bridge, and more. Passengers may get an opportunity to raise the sails or navigate the ship. Food and drinks are available for purchase.
- Departs from Pier 17, 89 South Street
- Cost: from $78
- Duration: 90 minutes
13. Picnic in Central Park
New York City is renowned for its beautifully landscaped public parks. When the weather allows it, locals and visitors flock to these green spaces in droves. And while each park has its merits, there’s really nothing like a day in Central Park, a place that attracts romantic-minded couples who want to paddle around in rowboats, stroll on secluded woodsy trails, or stake a spot on the lawn for a leisurely afternoon picnic.
In fact, setting up a special picnic in the park and lounging over it for hours may be one of the most romantic things to do in New York. Just grab some food to-go or stop at a supermarket before heading into the park. And while it’s fine to wander around until you find a place to settle, here are a few recommended spots for a Central Park picnic.
Cherry Hill-The highlight here is Bow Bridge, an elegant structure that spans the Lake. The bridge is one of the most photographed landmarks in the park and is a popular proposal spot. Bow Bridge has also seen its fair share of the limelight–it was featured in Spiderman 3, Enchanted, and many more popular movies.
- Location: Mid-park at 72nd Street. See map.
Sheep Meadow-A lively section of Central Park that’s named for the flock of sheep that grazed here until 1934. It’s designated as one of the park’s “quiet zones,” which means no dogs or music; however, it’s always a great place for people-watching.
- Location: Between West 66th St. and West 69th St. See map.
Great Lawn-A huge green space in the center of Central Park, with plenty of room to spread out a deluxe picnic meal!
- Location: Mid-park between 79th Street and 85th Street. See map.
14. Paddle a Kayak or Rowboat
There’s a certain allure to paddling a boat on calm waters, hearing the gentle lapping of waves while working as a pair to get to your destination.
Kayaking in New York is a special experience. Be prepared for breathtaking skyline views as you paddle in the East River or Hudson River. Or, you can look adorable rowing a a rowboat in Central Park, where you can paddle casually around the Lake but mainly remain focused on each other.
Rowboats are available to rent seasonally at The Loeb Boathouse in Central Park.
Free kayaking is available seasonally at various piers around New York City.
- Downtown Boathouse. Located at Pier 26 in Hudson River Park (in Tribeca).
- Manhattan Community Boathouse. Located at Pier 96 in Hudson River Park (at 57th St.).
- Inwood Canoe Club. Located near the Dyckman Marina at Dyckman St. and the Hudson River.
- Brooklyn Bridge Park Boathouse. Located between Piers 1 and 2 in Brooklyn Bridge Park.
15. Go on a Leisurely Scenic Bike Ride
Buckle your helmets, hop on two wheels, and cruise the Hudson River Greenway or any other of the dozens of bike-friendly trails and greenways in New York City. This is the perfect thing to do for active couples. You’ll see the city from a bit of a different perspective while amping up your endorphins at the same time!
Because we live in Inwood, we often begin our bike ride at the Hudson River Greenway trailhead at Dyckman Marina, ride south past the Little Red Lighthouse located under the George Washington Bridge, and then turn around once we reach Morningside Heights (around 116th Street).
Once, we rode the Hudson River Greenway all the way down to the Battery, a trip I highly recommend if you want a nice long, scenic bike ride along the water.
Matt and I have our own bikes (and in true NYC fashion, mine is propped against a bookshelf in my living room while it languishes on a waitlist for our apartment’s bike storage room!). If you’re not traveling with your own bicycles, you can rent one from CitiBike at your desired starting location, from Bike Rent NYC, or from one of the many rental shops around town.
16. Experience a Unique Rooftop Winery
While it’s no Bordeaux or Napa Valley, sampling wines made from grapes grown on a rooftop in Brooklyn is still a pretty cool experience! If you’re looking for unique NYC couple activities, this would check that box for sure.
Rooftop Reds, located at Brooklyn Navy Yard, pioneered the concept of an urban rooftop winery when they started out in 2016. The grapes that are harvested from their custom rooftop planter system produces around 20-25 cases of wine every year. The rest comes about as part of their partnership with Point of the Bluff Vineyards, located on Keuka Lake in the Finger Lakes.
And while Rooftop Reds is undeniably a fun destination for friend groups, there are also plenty of tables for two nestled among the rooftop vines, perfect for quiet conversation as you sample wines that started their lives on a Brooklyn rooftop.
Reservations are required at Rooftop Reds and a $15 cover charge applies. This gets you a guaranteed table, a bottle of water, and a bag of chips. Light snacks are available for purchase and food trucks are occasionally on-site. 299 Sands Street, Building 275, Brooklyn, NY
- Rooftop Reds is closed during the winter and reopens in the spring.
17. Have a Date at the Museum
Whether you’re a new or long-time couple, I can’t think of a more iconic New York date-night than strolling through a museum and looking at some of the most famous works of art in the world together.
You might hold hands as you wander through world class exhibits at The Metropolitan Museum of Art. If you’re visiting in January, check out the weekend event, “Date Night at the Met.” If it’s summer, be sure to check out the annual rooftop exhibit.
You could also head a little further north of The Met to the Guggenheim, another lovely museum date destination. You’ll view world-class art as you walk ever higher up the spiraling ramp in a gorgeous building designed by Frank Lloyd Wright.
Another 15-minute walk north will take you to El Museo del Barrio, a museum that highlights Latino, Caribbean, and Latin American art and culture.
In Midtown East, tour an extensive collection of rare books at the Morgan Library & Museum, a 1906 library whose grandeur absolutely drips with the wealth of its founder, financier Pierpont Morgan. Or head to the Leslie-Lohman Museum of Art, a SoHo museum that works to preserve and promote art created by LGBTQIA+ artists.
18. Listen to Live Jazz
Put your heads together in an intimate space as you listen to music that was made for lovers. There’s always live jazz happening in New York City but here are a few venues to check out. Be sure to check if reservations are needed and whether there’s a minimum spending amount on food and/or drink.
- Smalls Jazz Club-Offers a nightly calendar of incredible live musicians in a cozy basement setting in Greenwich Village. Or check out their second club, Mezzrow, which is just across 7th Avenue from Smalls. 183 W. 10th St., New York, NY
- Bill’s Place-Listen to live jazz sessions in a Harlem neighborhood once known as Swingstreet because of the many speakeasies that were clustered here during Prohibition. On weekend evenings, jazz lovers gather to hear Bill Saxton & The Harlem All-Stars. Saxton is the club’s owner, as well as a legendary saxophone player and lifelong Harlem resident. 148 W. 133rd St., New York, NY
- Minton’s Playhouse–Set on the first floor of The Cecil Steakhouse in Harlem, Minton’s Playhouse is known as the place where Bebop was born. Since saxophonist Henry Minton opened the doors in 1938, the club has seen performances by Charlie Parker, Louis Armstrong Ella Fitzgerald, Miles Davis, and countless other legends. 206 W. 118th St., New York, NY
- Zinc Bar-An eclectic mix includes Latin jazz, African and Brazilian bands, cabaret, and more and attracts all generations of music fans to its subterranean venue. After a set or two, you can brag that you hung out on Frank Sinatra’s old stomping grounds—he was known to come and watch Billie Holiday sing when the venue at the same address was called Club Cinderella. 82 W. Third St., New York, NY
- Birdland Jazz Club-For a taste of New York City jazz in a central location, head to Birdland in Times Square. Two levels accommodate customers: Birdland Jazz Club is on the ground level, where live sets are performed at 7 and 9:30 p.m. (and additional 5 p.m. sets on weekends). Sets at the Birdland Theater, located on the lower level, take place at 8:30 p.m. Both serve dinner and drinks. 315 W. 44th St., New York, NY
Are you a couple who truly loves jazz? If so, enrich your experience even more by taking an Evening Harlem Jazz Tour, which ends with live music at a neighborhood jazz club.
19. Soak in Roman Baths
How does it sound to completely disconnect from the outside world and treat you and your loved one to a few hours of pampering at a candlelit day spa?
If this perfectly describes your idea of romance, then book a session for two at AIRE Ancient Baths. The spa is located inside an elegant Tribeca building that was originally a textile factory built in 1883. Inside is a candlelit space with saunas and baths filled with water of varying temperatures.
Styled after traditional Roman, Greek, and Ottoman spas, the purpose at AIRE Ancient Baths is to help you fully unwind and relax as you soak in the various therapeutic waters. If you’re interested in one of the most relaxing things to do for couples in New York, this is it!
Water temperatures range from the 50-degree Ice Bath to the 102-degree Hot Bath. There’s also a Bath of Thousand Jets, a Steam Bath, and a deliciously relaxing Salt Bath.
AIRE Ancient Baths offers several packages for couples, which typically include massages, time to soak in the therapeutic baths, and a glass each of fresh fruit juice. Choose a couples package or just keep it simple with the basic Ancient Baths experience, which consists of using the thermal baths at your own pace.
Time limits apply to all sessions. Amenities include locker rooms with showers and a relaxation area with complementary cold water and tea. Reservations for all experiences are required. 88 Franklin Street, New York, NY
Examples of prices. Cost increases depending on the experience you booked.
- Ancient Baths: 90-minute use of thermal baths. $145+ per person.
- Couples Escape: 90-minute use of thermal baths. Two fresh juices. $160+ per person.
- Escape Together 30’: a 30-minute massage for two. 90-minute use of thermal baths. Two fresh juices. $227.50+ per person.
20. Go on a Romantic Getaway
New York state has endless options for romantic getaways, no matter what you’re in the mood for. Click on each destination for more information.
Windham
For a romantic fall getaway, head to Windham in the Catskills for great hiking, wine tasting, and lots of small-town charm. Spend a night or two at the newly restored Wylder Windham Hotel or at an Eastwind Hotel clamping site. Both places offer fire pits, barrel saunas, and more amenities perfect for couples.
Saratoga Springs
In Saratoga Springs, you can dine out every night at a different restaurant, pamper yourselves at a mineral water spa, and get cozy at a romantic bed-and-breakfast. There are also lots of options to see live music, visit various museums, and hike to natural mineral water fountains.
Finger Lakes
In the Finger Lakes, couples can spend days, even weeks, wine tasting, hiking, kayaking, visiting unique local shops, and dining on delicious meals in farm-to-table restaurants. There is really something for everyone in this gorgeous Upstate New York wine region!
Final Thoughts on Romantic Things to do in New York City
Without a doubt, New York is one of the most romantic cities in the world. Couples here can make their experience whatever they want it to be, whether it’s a stay at a luxurious hotel, a simple picnic in the park, or an intimate dinner for two.
Whether you’re seeking to bond over an adventure or looking for a little quiet time together, I hope you’ve gotten some great ideas for romantic things to do in New York City!
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